All bets are off post-COVD-19: crisis = opportunity.

Pickle Rick

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With travel restrictions, the economy, and actual health concerns (although the death rate is so low I don't understand all the precautions, but hey, stay healthy). Let's not get political.

Your close up and personal and long-distance relationships may suffer and no amount of money can really fix that so now more than ever it is a good idea to diversify. There are so many apps for this I"m not even going to list them. Contact and connect.

This is a case where everyone is in the same boat. A bit of cabin fever. But it's also an opportunity to take stock of one's life.

It makes you think doesn't it. A thought process that goes something like "What the fuck...

...am I doing in this relationship.

...in this job.

Or maybe the years went by and you haven't reached those goals.

That being said, there are millions of attractive women who are horny after being secluded. They may not admit it but they are. One thing I've seen with women in a relationship is that timing rules all. That means that they will declare up and down how they don't cheat, they would never sleep with you, show you photos of their family and whatever other technique they can use to convince themselves that they won't sleep with you. But they will... If you catch them at the right time (probably drunk LOL). I say this because right now a lot of people are in a state of transition. There are single women, married women, and the ones that enter "it's complicated" on dating sites.

While most guys are staying home getting fat (read betas) I'm working out. With whatever is heavy. And talking to different women around the world.

What works:

1) Stay fit. Stay focused and positive. Now more than ever.

2) Learn another language. If you have learned anything from any of Caleb's blogs and videos it is time to leave the slow sinking ship that is the United States. Now is the time.

3) Meet new and exciting women from other countries and cultures. There is a lot of adapting involved here. To culture and customs. But it is quite rewarding. And the idea of going where you are treated best certainly resonates with the Alpha 2.0 lifestyle. What does that mean? It means in your home country women may not see your value but someplace else you may do smashingly well. You just have to find that place. And you won't know until you try. This is largely a matter of perception but when girls reaffirm that you a cool Alpha it certainly helps.
 

joelsuf

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S'Funny, COVID19 only really threw me out of the loop for about 6 weeks. Come May, the only thing I couldn't really do was go to the gym. Now I can do all the stuff I was able to do before COVID19 appeared, only I gotta wear a mask everywhere. Meh.

But yeah as soon as I make a lot of money and pay off my debts I'm heading to Southeast Asia. I am so done with the US. It'll be a clone of North Korea a decade from now, like most western nations will be.

Would rather be in a place like North Korea but peaceful like any Eastern nation currently is.

I swear, if I had nothing to live for I'd be starting Anarchy riots. COVID19 has gotten more people to cling to Statism than ever. It's unsettling.
 

Papi Knox

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2) Learn another language. If you have learned anything from any of Caleb's blogs and videos it is time to leave the slow sinking ship that is the United States. Now is the time.
I would not stress this much, unless you prefer to know another language. All the places you want to live, and all the people you want to know, accommodate and speak English. I put emphasis on stacking acash to make the move and secure residency and citizenship quickly


I gotta wear a mask everywhere.
Try not wearing it. See how much easier life is in spite of the mandates

COVID19 has gotten more people to cling to Statism than ever. It's unsettling.
Find a Group of loyal men worth budilgin with right now. Even if you move, if you do not have this, you will fall into the same situations you say you want to leave
 

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Try not wearing it. See how much easier life is in spite of the mandates
I was exaggerating when I said "everywhere." I only really put it on when I'm close to people when inside establishments and stuff. Needing to wear a mask when inside these places hasn't really made life any easier or more difficult. A harmless inconvenience, really.

Find a Group of loyal men worth budilgin with right now. Even if you move, if you do not have this, you will fall into the same situations you say you want to leave
You might be right. I do have communities like this and that's pretty much all I need. I'm a loner by nature as well so it's not that I hang out with people who embrace statism, it's that I see that the entire walking wounded around me embraces statism and that makes me sad. The west is gonna turn into North Korea in a decade no matter what and that makes me sad. Being around others who think the same wouldn't really affect that.

That said, I'm not about to start any Anarcho-Capitalism marches or anything like that lol. I'm too dedicated to contribution to waste my time doing something like that. External Solutions are for nihilist degenerates with no purpose.
 

Papi Knox

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You might be right. I do have communities like this and that's pretty much all I need. I'm a loner by nature as well so it's not that I hang out with people who embrace statism, it's that I see that the entire walking wounded around me embraces statism and that makes me sad. The west is gonna turn into North Korea in a decade no matter what and that makes me sad. Being around others who think the same wouldn't really affect that.
You care too much about things you cannot change. You will become the thing you obsess over if you do not put this in check. Turn off the pity

Focus on what matters

Healthy relationships with Healthy men. Men who do not talk about these topics because they're irrelevant. Meet with them in person regularly. Build businesses. Share insights. Develop your own community. Attract more killers. Ignore clown world

Being a loner is killing you, and costing you wins
 

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You care too much about things you cannot change. You will become the thing you obsess over if you do not put this in check.
haha fair enough. I tend to do this whenever I'm not having the best of days. My PC crashed while I was doing some writing assignments yesterday. I was in a pissy mood, hense all the nonsense. It's a bad habit of mine that resurfaced. Minor slip up.

Healthy relationships with Healthy men. Men who do not talk about these topics because they're irrelevant. Meet with them in person regularly. Build businesses. Share insights. Develop your own community. Attract more killers. Ignore clown world
I agree. Most of my bowling buddies (save for one really outlandish Alpha 1 who is a massive Trump fanboy lol) are like this. We talk about easier ways for people to keep track of bowling tournaments around them. One of us is trying to develop a phone app for this.

Being a loner is killing you, and costing you wins
True enough. I only enjoy my own company when I absolutely need to. But I definitely understand the importance of having awesome people around who build you up. Can't do everything myself.
 

TheMaleBrain

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I'll add my 2 cents:
1. What works (for me) - you need to be "Grounded" in relationship. Meaning that you need at least MLTR (or two). This is my understanding, since you have problems of getting to the market (no travel and actual meetup). Having MLTR/FB basis (just like in business - having a major customer) is what allows you to survive and move forward later.
Background: I'n in my 40s, so the same with FB may apply to younger crowd.
2. The future is online - I'm in B2B and I saw a steep decline in income. I regained new customers lately (check the "Wins From Past Week" thread). But I can both sense and hear that my business model needs adaptation. I've been on online seminars of going digital - courses/product or so. In the next pandemic (and it will arrive somewhere in the future) - online will be main focus.
I know it's old news, but even as a consultant who works B2B and sometimes government entities (with security and all) - I need to be able to work more online.
Today I spend 75% of my "billable hours" in my home. It used to be 40%.
3. Friends and "like-minded people" - Always a solid advice. Here is how to gather a following: Help them. If you are there for your friends - most will not forget it. Help them. That is why I have "Networking and Friends Assistance" as part of the "Wins From Past Week" thread.
Help them as much as you can.
4. The world maybe doom - So enjoy the decline.
So the world around us goes to hell. So people are flipping out. So what?
You have your life. Enjoy them. If you don't enjoy it, why bother?
Like minded people? Great - let's meet, do stuff and ENJOY
Good and hot (enough) girls? Great - let's bang and enjoy their company.
Working hard? Great - let's see results and be proud if ourselves.
5. Keep learning
Knowledge and skills cannot be taken from you. Learn and keep learning. Either language or new skill. Try to use them - It's use it or lose it.
 

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But I definitely understand the importance of having awesome people around who build you up. Can't do everything myself.
If you know better, you're obligated to do better
 
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