So I've read some of BlackDragon's stuff in the past and read the Unchained Man. I am delving into Open Relationships for the first time really and "dating" multiple women. I'm having a bit of trouble putting things in the right definitions however; either that or I'm doing it ENTIRELY wrong. My first question is:
1. Is dating a MARRIED girl in an open marriage acceptable? If so may it also fit any of the definition aside fro OLTR (since she's already married)? This is a friend who I've always flirted with and had serious attraction with who recently opened her marriage. We've been having a bit of a fling the past few weeks and it's very exciting for both of us. I care about her (always have as a friend), and we've gotten to know each other on a deeper level. She's going to be out of town for a month and asked me to come visit. Is this okay to do? I know Black Dragon says something about NOT spending money or travelling to meet a woman for sex, BUT it could be really fun. Why not?
2. I'm also dating another FB I kinda care about, but not as much. She WANTS to get married, but I am the wrong ethnicity for her (she's said otherwise I am her ideal man many times). We dated for a while, but I got mad when she said there was no future.....I let it be for a few months, and know we're talking again. I even already told her I'm dating/having sex with another girl and she seems cool with it. Is this an okay girl to keep around?
Both of these girls are SUPER hot. Possibly the 2 hottest girls I've ever slept with. The drawback for both is that there seems to be no future however. I WOULD like some true connection, but maybe that's just my societal programming talking. Maybe I need to keep both and date others that have longer term potential (and can actually spend the night eventually)?
Thanks in advance. This forum seems like a treasure trove.
1. Is dating a MARRIED girl in an open marriage acceptable? If so may it also fit any of the definition aside fro OLTR (since she's already married)? This is a friend who I've always flirted with and had serious attraction with who recently opened her marriage. We've been having a bit of a fling the past few weeks and it's very exciting for both of us. I care about her (always have as a friend), and we've gotten to know each other on a deeper level. She's going to be out of town for a month and asked me to come visit. Is this okay to do? I know Black Dragon says something about NOT spending money or travelling to meet a woman for sex, BUT it could be really fun. Why not?
2. I'm also dating another FB I kinda care about, but not as much. She WANTS to get married, but I am the wrong ethnicity for her (she's said otherwise I am her ideal man many times). We dated for a while, but I got mad when she said there was no future.....I let it be for a few months, and know we're talking again. I even already told her I'm dating/having sex with another girl and she seems cool with it. Is this an okay girl to keep around?
Both of these girls are SUPER hot. Possibly the 2 hottest girls I've ever slept with. The drawback for both is that there seems to be no future however. I WOULD like some true connection, but maybe that's just my societal programming talking. Maybe I need to keep both and date others that have longer term potential (and can actually spend the night eventually)?
Thanks in advance. This forum seems like a treasure trove.