Being choosy vs being negative

Alexx

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This is not just about pickup. I don't think there is anything wrong about being choosy and hard to satisfy. If anything it conveys value and experience. However it can easily come off as being negative. For example a friend once suggested we go to a monthly event. It involved live music, crappy booze and some socialization. I told him "It's not that great" then he said "No it's good!!" Now I've seen him with fat or autistic girls. The majority of people are satisfied easily or maybe I should say it makes them feel good to think things around them are great.

So I'm not sure what to do; trying to "fit in", which seems to be what BD suggests in his dating books or being myself and flaunting my dissatisfaction. Or maybe there is a middle way?
 

Papi Knox

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What you're describing is ambition.

You have a standard and want to own it.

Great.

Do that. It's a process that doesn't involve anyone, plus any one who scoffs at it, is not part of the standard you have for yourself

I'm not sure Calbe's ever written anything oppposite of that.
 

Pickle Rick

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When you rise up to Alpha 2 level you look around and see no one there.

It's 00 status.

Most of United States is low class and absolutely fucking worthless. Fuck'em.

It's time you start traveling.

Caleb is outcome independent to good effect and that's what you want to emulate.

It's OK to go out with your friend in that type of environment from time to time and just try to enjoy it but from the tone of your post it's not you.

As far as being choosy, what you want to do is come from a position of command and authority.

You want something specific and you are willing do what is necessary to get it. (See any Bond film for reference).

You won't settle for less.

Another way to think of it is amused mastery.

Don't let social programming or obsolete biological wiring get in the way of what you want.

Be selective and a little condescending with women.

Being choosy is one thing.

Complaining is another and turns everybody off.
 

Papi Knox

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I purposely say wild things upfront, in my personal style to filter for women that won't fit my standard.

Reduces my stats, but I get higher quality women that pass.
 
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