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First post in here. Im 36 year old man and I recently move together with 24 year old woman. This is my first serious open relationship. I was cohabitating once before with woman around 6 years ago. That relationship was monogamous and I ended up cheating.
I notice that drama increased almost instantly when shes moving in. I been with her aroung 1,5 years with zero problems before moving together. Currently I have 2 fb:s and apartment is mine. I dont have one itisy feelings for her. So I think im good if the relationship goes south.
I have habit to start alpha 1.0 behaviors when the drama occur. I know very bad for long term relationship management. Shes submissive, really sensitive and overthinking a lot. And I think shes get little bit scary when I lose my temper. Its not even drama all the time. Shes rarely point bad feelings to me. Its just really illogical problems and opening up to me around 2-3 times a week and I get tired of that. And yes I know already that OLTR is more difficult than MLTR/FB model.
Any advice whats proper drama management mindsets and techniques when soft nexting is not in my toolbox now? And do Blackdragon talk a lot about those skills in hes open marriage book? I dont read that yet. I already read get to sex fast, open relationship manual and unchained man books.
First post in here. Im 36 year old man and I recently move together with 24 year old woman. This is my first serious open relationship. I was cohabitating once before with woman around 6 years ago. That relationship was monogamous and I ended up cheating.
I notice that drama increased almost instantly when shes moving in. I been with her aroung 1,5 years with zero problems before moving together. Currently I have 2 fb:s and apartment is mine. I dont have one itisy feelings for her. So I think im good if the relationship goes south.
I have habit to start alpha 1.0 behaviors when the drama occur. I know very bad for long term relationship management. Shes submissive, really sensitive and overthinking a lot. And I think shes get little bit scary when I lose my temper. Its not even drama all the time. Shes rarely point bad feelings to me. Its just really illogical problems and opening up to me around 2-3 times a week and I get tired of that. And yes I know already that OLTR is more difficult than MLTR/FB model.
Any advice whats proper drama management mindsets and techniques when soft nexting is not in my toolbox now? And do Blackdragon talk a lot about those skills in hes open marriage book? I dont read that yet. I already read get to sex fast, open relationship manual and unchained man books.