How I maintain my frame.

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In the line of my business I talk with 100 people a day and make deals with them. This girl I’ve known for like 6 months.

Watch how she gets mad at my actions.

She calls me so many things, and I just respond slowly but it gets a reaction out of her. At one point she almost through me out my frame where I was about to tell her to fuck off and block, but I knew I’d regret it cause I don’t want to do that. I wrote a blog where it went viral somewhat in our industry and she attacked me when she woke up, and I just sent her nice flowers for the fuck off it.

Then I told her, she too old for me, she’s 27 and I’m 29. I told her she’s like my little sister, etc. This isn’t a bar, friends, this is business relation and I use google hangouts for that since I talk with many people. However I still got a reaction from here that goes like this. Now mind you she called me after and hinted more things of being together etc blah blah.

Bottom line is, she tried to break me down. Rather to tell her to fuck off or apologize like a little bitch. Why did she say these things? It’s different then who and what she’s used to.

This actually came out of nowhere. It’s been months of her always being offended by me, bitching etc. I never broke my frame. I never tried. Now with her, on to the next step. But I’d like to share an example what I reply to any female when it gets to these situations. She’s hot without kids which is a big plus.

Bottom line; don’t be an asshole. Be a guy with care, opinions, funny, say what you want without expectations and no matter how they act they come back to talk of you maintain when it’s different than their typical man. A lot of females will not have guts to go through this. A lot will rather not deal with it,
 

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this is just weird

1— You're dating someone you work with too? If I'm reading that correctly, it's a dumb move. You'd be better off nexting right away.

2— You're logical with her instead of emotional. You feed her instead of lead her, which is what she wants.

3— This is a shit test upon many shit tests. Yet the way you respond to them makes it seem more serious than it actually is.

You can tighten this up by being more jocular.

However, if you ever find yourself in this situation with a woman you've locked-in you have to break her of the nonsense or cut her from the roster.

In this case, drop this girl, she's given you dozens of reasons... listen to her.

Start dating fun women who can humble themselves. Plenty of them out there that won't blow up your phone for attention on a regular basis like this chick
 
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this is just weird

1— You're dating someone you work with too? If I'm reading that correctly, it's a dumb move. You'd be better off nexting right away.

2— You're logical with her instead of emotional. You feed her instead of lead her, which is what she wants.

3— This is a shit test upon many shit tests. Yet the way you respond to them makes it seem more serious than it actually is.

You can tighten this up by being more jocular.

However, if you ever find yourself in this situation with a woman you've locked-in you have to break her of the nonsense or cut her from the roster.

In this case, drop this girl, she's given you dozens of reasons... listen to her.

Start dating fun women who can humble themselves. Plenty of them out there that won't blow up your phone for attention on a regular basis like this chick
I work for myself, but I’m in a industry full of women. They don’t work for me or anything like that.

I sent her flowers one day over nothing romantic. Since then she has been shit testing me beyond any lines. For example. I told her few days ago what I’m eating. She is asking me today what I think about the place and ordered the same thing I told her.

All in all, nothing romantic from my side besides just being logical, but for guys that lurk here, this is how to maintain. There’s no explanation or apology needed to women unless you seriously do something you’d apologize to anyone for.

Problem with “dropping” her because A) she wants me to submit or B) ends up going crazy on me, which I’m not looking for either is for example.


Last night she called me. Said she’s taking off her make up, I asked what else is she taking off. She said that’s making her mad and will take me off the phone. I said Ok, and hung up.

This morning she texted me “good morning”, which I didn’t respond to. Not because I didn’t want to or anything, but because I was busy, and responding to her had no point. 20 minutes before noon she texted me “it’s not too late to wish me a happy morning”... which again, I ignored, then she sent over some work for me over the email which I said I don’t have any interested in at the moment, since I don’t. 2 hours later I saw her company had a job I wanted. She paid me money I asked for without skipping a heartbeat. A lot of money, think $1800 made in 4 hours.


I like your advice as far as dropping her, but problem is I do get great money from her company on my terms, and as a person she is a very nice person and looks good, but I still maintain my frame which makes her react like this.


If men did that in any aspect of life around women they would never be hurt.
 

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Keep it strictly business. Life is too good to deal with women like this, especially if they're making you money. You'll make more money with her when you flip it, and she might rise to dating material.

Also NEVER go logical. Stop being logical with women they never respond positively to it. Learn to feed their need for attention with emotional catnip. You'll deal with this a lot less.
 
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Here is an upgrade with the same girl few weeks later.

Basically, today we found a tragic incident that occurred into a company I was previously highly invested in, an infant died, 2 other young females, 14 people injured, basically company is DONE. This is the reason I went my own way, due to how I saw it was heading carelessly in order to illegally count large amount of cash, I’m talking $10k a day. I literally don’t need 10k a day, and while I want it, it depends at what cost. Luckily for me I went my own way and have been building the same, but new business my own way, safe and legal without stealing or putting peoples life’s at risk, including mostly the the general public.

This is where you’ll see her apologizing, claiming she was a bitch, etc, and being nice etc. me being, literally me with a bit of flirtation. Same chick, after all these weeks. Says shit like this. Question? Where are these great guys etc that know how to treat a woman, etc... I skipped a bit not to talk about too much business (work/ideas how I am expanding the company at a current really high growth) but you can tell by these how she acts. Still this is not an act, this is my frame. Not mean, vulgar, offensive, just... I’m ok without you woman.
 

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My take is still the same

1— Don't date girls you work with unless they give you 100% of their income
2— This relationships is unnecessary and unhealthy
3— Why aren't you dating dozens more women?
4— Where is your killer instinct in life?
 

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My take is still the same

1— Don't date girls you work with unless they give you 100% of their income
2— This relationships is unnecessary and unhealthy
3— Why aren't you dating dozens more women?
4— Where is your killer instinct in life?
She isn’t a co worker by any means. So we have to deal with each other in order to make money. Her company brings great stuff to my company, but it’s been brewing with us like this. I don’t date her, or whatever. My dates are more for fun things to do, etc. This is just how typical woman keeps reacting to things. A typical male would maybe apologize, etc. Or do sweet things, not sure.

One time I had a woman in this line of buisness tell me we’re broke cause we didn’t pay a small unloading fee. We didn’t pay it because we were told there wasn’t one. So I ordered 100 pizzas for her whole office.

She became so nice, especially seeing the bill in thousands. Gave me a lot of work. Women in this line of work try to use their voices, photos, flirtations, so much for services to do it for cheap, meanwhile I ask for more than anyone, and there’s always ones like this that cling on, but hey, they give me the money.
 

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I dunno, I would have dropped her like a bad habit the second she started accusing me of stuff. I have a less than zero tolerance for people who decide to accuse me of stuff like I'm some kind of child. But whatevs, you do you.
 

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I dunno, I would have dropped her like a bad habit the second she started accusing me of stuff. I have a less than zero tolerance for people who decide to accuse me of stuff like I'm some kind of child. But whatevs, you do you.
I’m not dating her bro, this chick got me $1800 on 400 miles for my drivers, that’s money to me. But this is how she acts even though it’s not a “I want to be with you”. I’m really looking how far she’s goes as a woman.
 

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She isn’t a co worker by any means. So we have to deal with each other in order to make money. Her company brings great stuff to my company, but it’s been brewing with us like this. I don’t date her, or whatever. My dates are more for fun things to do, etc. This is just how typical woman keeps reacting to things. A typical male would maybe apologize, etc. Or do sweet things, not sure.

One time I had a woman in this line of buisness tell me we’re broke cause we didn’t pay a small unloading fee. We didn’t pay it because we were told there wasn’t one. So I ordered 100 pizzas for her whole office.

She became so nice, especially seeing the bill in thousands. Gave me a lot of work. Women in this line of work try to use their voices, photos, flirtations, so much for services to do it for cheap, meanwhile I ask for more than anyone, and there’s always ones like this that cling on, but hey, they give me the money.
Walls of text over a girl is always a sign that you need to NEXT

This is a woman who makes you money so that's business

Done

Add anything more at your own risk OR learn the ways of the Pimp so you can do both

But the path your own doesn't end in happily ever after
 

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Walls of text over a girl is always a sign that you need to NEXT

This is a woman who makes you money so that's business

Done

Add anything more at your own risk OR learn the ways of the Pimp so you can do both

But the path your own doesn't end in happily ever after
Certainly not, if this is how she reacts over stuff like this I can’t imagine how she treats someone she is dating. I would legit hate to be that guy.

But I did this post, just to show guys, who are reading how women will react no matter what, you just keep your frame.


She is good looking but not my type, too far away, requires too much maintenance, not my type.

Might be a “good girl” to someone but biologically speaking these are actions she pulls, even without dating, and I leave the business open, and if she wanted to decline I would agree.

I could post more like this but I’m too lazy and too busy lol.
 

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who are reading how women will react no matter what, you just keep your frame
You're not doing anything special here

At best you're unprofessional with your staff

At worst, you're unprofessional with your staff

Has nothing to do with women or keeping frame; you're just being unintentional, which is not what men do

Post conversations with actual women you date and then we can guage where you're at with this topic when you're being purposeful
 

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You're not doing anything special here

At best you're unprofessional with your staff

At worst, you're unprofessional with your staff

Has nothing to do with women or keeping frame; you're just being unintentional, which is not what men do

Post conversations with actual women you date and then we can guage where you're at with this topic when you're being purposeful
I think you misunderstand staff and partners in business. I don’t talk with staff.
 

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You've already stated that

We know

My point remains the same, your texts here are unnecessary and don't add value to your life

Focus on people and things that do
 

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You've already stated that

We know

My point remains the same, your texts here are unnecessary and don't add value to your life

Focus on people and things that do
Bro, don’t take this the wrong way, I wish I could keep a camera on with girls I meet. I am just trying to explain how I keep a frame with chicks in general by girls that come to me due to buisness connections, not my personal staff. For example. Here is another one. I can show you more. What I’m trying to say, is don’t crack down on some dumb shit for females no matter who they are, I keep a frame and get them into dirty talks too, and I say whatever.

Luckily I do make money, work for myself, and not only do I get to meet women that are strangers but also women in my industry are attracted to me, and if they look good, yes I will fuck their brains out.

This is my frame and how I keep it, and maybe I’d guys browsing or trying to learn can use it to their advantage I hope it helps. I fuck any woman in my rating scale, I just don’t get confused for a sucker.
 

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