Is this girl a gold digger / provider hunter?

Gulliver

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Matched with a girl on a dating site. She responds to my opener with her trying to validate me. That would have been my next message trying to validate her. So I answer her validating question "what makes me impatient in life" and then I add my validating question. She responds but it's totally out of context. She says she doesn't want to go into all that and that she wants to find a real man very soon because she is leaving in a flat for 6 months on her own. She needs help and she's looking for a man who can help her, but not a player and is not just for here for sex and she is also ready to help the man. She didn't specify what help she meant. But she not wanting to respond to my question "What makes you different than other women? If you had to pick one thing" is suspicious to me. My thoughts she is a gold digger, and provider hunter and wants me to pay her rent or something, but could be wrong. Thoughts?
 

Papi Knox

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No such thing as a gold-digger

What you have is a woman who is bored and like she said lacking a real man in her life

It's not your job to play a logical conversation with an illogical creature

EVERYTHING she said is the opposite of what she meant

It's your role it know this and use it to your advantage

She gives you a validation question...

Respond with: "Your flirting technique needs work"

Then lead the conversation like a man in control of his life and thus in control of his woman

This girl is dead and done... move onto the next one
 

Nis

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Could also be a scam, fishing for people with more money than sense. I'd say that's actually more likely than it being a gold-digger.
 

Papi Knox

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When women say crazy ridiculous things... that don't make sense

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