Due to nature of my job I can see my MLTR for 4-5 weeks and then have a break of 2-3 weeks. The girl I'm seeing now for past 2.5 months is 23 year old MLTR, with potential for OLTR. We didn't have The Talk, nor we defined relationship, but after 3 weeks we did STD testing and started having sex without condoms. And since it'll be long distance relationship for next 4-5 months we were lately seeing each other like 2-3 times a week.
I wouldn't even think of having sex with someone else without condoms. Not only that she is also very cautious, but considering how she's fallen into me, her strong religion, values and what we talked about so far, with 98% I can say she's not having sex with anyone else when I'm not around for 1 month, let alone when I'm in town. BUT there is a small chance that she has a long term FB from the past and then there's a chance that they don't use condoms (hard to rely on woman 100%).
Now we'll meet soon after the pause. I'm just a little bit scared to continue not using condoms without asking her simply if I need condom/having ultra quick chat if she was responsible. But then that might open The Talk earlier than necessary, she'll probably insist to know if I'm still having sex with other girls when I'm asking that.
I'd trust her answer and take risk, but should I even avoid asking her since chances are ultra low that she had sex with someone, especially without condom? We're both not into kids now at all. Using condoms all the time with her would be downgrading amazing sex.
I wouldn't even think of having sex with someone else without condoms. Not only that she is also very cautious, but considering how she's fallen into me, her strong religion, values and what we talked about so far, with 98% I can say she's not having sex with anyone else when I'm not around for 1 month, let alone when I'm in town. BUT there is a small chance that she has a long term FB from the past and then there's a chance that they don't use condoms (hard to rely on woman 100%).
Now we'll meet soon after the pause. I'm just a little bit scared to continue not using condoms without asking her simply if I need condom/having ultra quick chat if she was responsible. But then that might open The Talk earlier than necessary, she'll probably insist to know if I'm still having sex with other girls when I'm asking that.
I'd trust her answer and take risk, but should I even avoid asking her since chances are ultra low that she had sex with someone, especially without condom? We're both not into kids now at all. Using condoms all the time with her would be downgrading amazing sex.