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MESSAGE FROM THE CAVEMAN:
[SHIT TESTS ARE NORMAL]
Most of the comments and questions in this room are based around a misunderstanding of the female trait known as the shit test
Let's break this down
1— Women date the best men they can
To do this they have to challenge their men to show up or get out, hence the shit tests
2— They don't know they're doing them
IN most cases, this is so natural women don't know they're doing them. There are few highly intelligent and competent women who do it purposefully, and in many cases, they were taught how to do so by competent men.
3— Shit tests are not malicious
Just because you're offended by some tests, doesn't mean it's a meant to offend you. Get over yourself, it's never personal.
4— You'll get them forever (from your partner, daughters, female coworkers etc)
Every women does this, even if you're not having sex with her
Hell the first shit test a girl does when she's born is force her dad to prove his mettle as a man in handling his business to raise her
5— Never take them seriously because they aren't
Take them in stride. Always respond to them in a jocular way that matches your personality.
Practice the habit of not taking shit test seriously, which will help you overall with women. They're basically fun challenges to test your mental and physical toughness, which most men don't do enough so welcome the challenge. They're fun.
6— How to fail a shit test
Failing shit test doesn't feel like failure to most. All that happens is that you fall down in stature to the woman. Doesn't mean much in and of itself.
Ultimately, you'll be taken less serious and seen as less reliable.
An unreliable man is useless and that's why men who don't follow the first five tips deal with nasty disrespect, and are generally unhappy.
———
NOW here's the other part, which is worth noting.
Men shit test men too.
We're meant to challenge each other to be the best we can be, especially if we're neighbors. We need to make sure that we can take care of ourselves, each other, and our community. There can't be weak links in your squad, right?
That's why we test each other to make sure everyone is at the same level, and continually developing. This was how our parents and theirs were raised, but it's not a tradition they passed down to us.
Great example of the significance of this is of with the Spartans in 300. There's one scene that exemplifies this, and I'll post it in the comments.
Anywhats...
When men shit test, it can be malicious, and more
However the mark of all shit tests is that it's NEVER about the other person's comment and ALWAYS about You.
YOU and how you choose to handle it
Are you going to let it beat you or are you going to beat it?
Choice is yours
Choose wisely
Aim to beat the test (NOT the person or yourself)
Don't be a bitch
"Everything in life is an audition for a higher level"
[SHIT TESTS ARE NORMAL]
Most of the comments and questions in this room are based around a misunderstanding of the female trait known as the shit test
Let's break this down
1— Women date the best men they can
To do this they have to challenge their men to show up or get out, hence the shit tests
2— They don't know they're doing them
IN most cases, this is so natural women don't know they're doing them. There are few highly intelligent and competent women who do it purposefully, and in many cases, they were taught how to do so by competent men.
3— Shit tests are not malicious
Just because you're offended by some tests, doesn't mean it's a meant to offend you. Get over yourself, it's never personal.
4— You'll get them forever (from your partner, daughters, female coworkers etc)
Every women does this, even if you're not having sex with her
Hell the first shit test a girl does when she's born is force her dad to prove his mettle as a man in handling his business to raise her
5— Never take them seriously because they aren't
Take them in stride. Always respond to them in a jocular way that matches your personality.
Practice the habit of not taking shit test seriously, which will help you overall with women. They're basically fun challenges to test your mental and physical toughness, which most men don't do enough so welcome the challenge. They're fun.
6— How to fail a shit test
Failing shit test doesn't feel like failure to most. All that happens is that you fall down in stature to the woman. Doesn't mean much in and of itself.
Ultimately, you'll be taken less serious and seen as less reliable.
An unreliable man is useless and that's why men who don't follow the first five tips deal with nasty disrespect, and are generally unhappy.
———
NOW here's the other part, which is worth noting.
Men shit test men too.
We're meant to challenge each other to be the best we can be, especially if we're neighbors. We need to make sure that we can take care of ourselves, each other, and our community. There can't be weak links in your squad, right?
That's why we test each other to make sure everyone is at the same level, and continually developing. This was how our parents and theirs were raised, but it's not a tradition they passed down to us.
Great example of the significance of this is of with the Spartans in 300. There's one scene that exemplifies this, and I'll post it in the comments.
Anywhats...
When men shit test, it can be malicious, and more
However the mark of all shit tests is that it's NEVER about the other person's comment and ALWAYS about You.
YOU and how you choose to handle it
Are you going to let it beat you or are you going to beat it?
Choice is yours
Choose wisely
Aim to beat the test (NOT the person or yourself)
Don't be a bitch
"Everything in life is an audition for a higher level"
