@Leon there's no irrational fear here. If a woman wants to have babies and you do not, it's not a match. In this forum along we've seen men who have had this go awry for them because they let it slide. This type of woman doesn't need to own any extra space in our life, and even as an FB that's irresponsible. Way too many women in the world to deal with things that you don't want.However, I never understand the need to next or downgrade a girl based on an irrational fear from our part (unless she did something other than just saying she might want kid). Especially when you've never clearly stated your boundary on the kid thing with her (from what I read).