No success in online dating - what am I doing wrong?

Papi Knox

Papi Knox
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Ok. Could you give me an example sentence or two because I can't really imagine it.
You are the example

This is your life

Choose to live in the past or aim to be a new man

What does that new man say and do... those are the examples of the sentences you'll write to portray yourself

BUT AGAIN, this only works if you're living that lifestyle first and THEN accepting women into your life

You can't reach out to women first, and try to be the dominant man with a rich and full life afterward, which is what you're doing now
 

Gulliver

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You are the example

This is your life

Choose to live in the past or aim to be a new man

What does that new man say and do... those are the examples of the sentences you'll write to portray yourself
I don't understand why are you telling me off here. That's how it comes across. I wanted to find out which sentence made you feel that way so that I can learn. Instead of letting me know you just tell me it's just me, my character. Do you really think that the way to help me out?

I do progress with my life, I'm reading two of Caleb's books, and ordered two more. I'm putting things into practice. I got dates that I couldn't get before, so why this negativity? I don't help me for sure. If you don't want to help me, just let me know.

That new man wrote that bio. I'm not you. I'm a different person. That doesn't mean I'm a cucksucker though.

BUT AGAIN, this only works if you're living that lifestyle first and THEN accepting women into your life

You can't reach out to women first, and try to be the dominant man with a rich and full life afterward, which is what you're doing now
I don't understand why you're saying this. I do my best to live a fulfilling and rich lifestyle. Most men can't even tell they are doing things they love, and they are doing their mission. I do. The bio is the reflection of this.

If it's a bad bio. I welcome constructive criticism. But just saying the problem is me, and you can't give me an example of the sentence but me, as a person is an example I think is a bit overboard.
 

Papi Knox

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I'm not telling you off.

If you feel hurt, then you have an ego problem.

If you misunderstand what I mean, just ask.

You're doing the work, but this takes time. Months and years.

In three months time we'll have this conversation again, and you'll appreciate my words since you'll be living it.

I don't have advice on your bio, what's important is that you choose for yourself if it's the best reflection of you that you want women to respect and follow. Since I don't practice Caleb's bio format, I won't comment further. It's not bad, just not what I would do.

Man up and choose your own way as well.
 

Gulliver

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Not that I'm hurt it just came across as an offhanded remark. Like I'm the example of how to write a loser bio. If anything it wasn't a constructive criticism that I could apply. Maybe our style is different, I like a methodological approach. If something is not good, point it out, I'll work on it. But if you can't point it out specifically I don't know what to work on. "I'm the example" is vague to be of any help.
At the moment, I like the bio I wrote, but that doesn't mean I may not change it as I go.
 
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