She wants to know what I do the other 6 days of the week

TL0

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As stated in the title, my high end MLTR has been pressing me for answers on what I am doing on the days I'm not seeing her. She knows there are other women, but I don't want to tell her exactly what day I'm meeting/met other women and I want to be honest. How do you reply, when she wants to know "what you've been up to yesterday/last week"?
 

lenox

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Glad you already know that what you do when you're not with her is none of her business

Now you have to maintain that frame in how you carry yourself and what you say and do when this is borached, even in her attempts at being clever and getting you to slip

When she asks tell her the truth:

"Slayed a few dragons,
plundered a few villages,
beat up Prince Charming and stole his horse.
You wanna come with me?"

She doesn't want a real answer, she wants your attention

Give her the attention she needs, plus the opportunity to have more of it in the form of fun text banter and foreplay

Never be direct even if she asks for it because she doesn't really want it or need it

Worst case, she gets off at the next stop, and your bullet train of a life goes a bit faster towards the next destination with less weight to slow it down

Take note I do this with men too. It's not a tactic, but a principle to live by. No one who isn't with you in a given moment needs to know what you're doing when you're not together.

On a first date, a woman asked about my job a dozen times and each time I gave her a different response:

"I read signs for midgets who aren't tall enough to even see em"
"I sell salmon and peel bananas"
"When you tell are grandkids about this, you want them to know about how we talked about boring work?"
"A little of this and a little of that"
"Building my Empire brick by brick"

Ultimately,
"I make money and pay my bills. I don't do anything illegal, it's awesome."
 

TL0

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Cheers Lenox, thanks for the advice. Been reading your other comments in this forum as well- it's great to have someone like you around here!
 

lenox

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Glad you dig it Brother

We're all here to grow, even me

I share what I know and challenge and aim to be challenged by my Brothers here

Looking forward to hear more form you in the coming weeks
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