Thanks. Although I'm not sure why you think I give a shit. I really disagree with you guys on the "you can't have emotions" or "can't be angry" stuff. That is not what Caleb is teaching in his books. I do think a rockstar mentality is great but FFS, if something makes me angry, it's for a reason, and it's good to let it out. If I hit my foot in stone I say "Fuck!" nothing wrong with that.Gulliver
I get the impression you still give a shit.
When I was running around Vegas teaching Mystery Method (yeah, that old) the best analogy or mind model I can give you is The Rock Star.
Just get into that headspace of I am a rock star and everything else falls into place.
In Rock Star mindset you never overthink anything with a woman because:
1. You don't give a shit. ZFG. Or as Caleb puts it "Outcome Independent."
2. There's alway another one (or more) around the corner. Caleb calls this "Abundance Mindset."
When you grok the archetype all these things come natural.
All the acronyms concerning soft next and such are just guidelines like the Pirate Code.
You will make mistakes.
But you are a rock star.