Travel or nomadism and multiple relationships management (OLTR or MLTRs, and FBs)

Lazy Blitz

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This discussion aims at focusing on the specifics of managing an OLTR or several MLTR, and several FBs while living a nomadic lifestyle where one change his location every few months (from 1 month to 10 months). Potentially exploring new cities, and creating new relationships but as well returning to some favourite cities and thus reconnecting with existing MLTR and/or FB after several months/years.


Some subtopics I can think of include:

- how to maintain with minimum time consuming, the existing relationships while living away in a different city?

- how the dynamic of leaving the city after a few month and eventually returning many months later changes the dynamics of the relationships and/or interfere with alpha 2.0 techniques?

- which type of locations do you choose? Large cities, small villages, etc... How each type of location changes the relationship dynamics?

- what dating sites and apps do you use?

- do you pipeline before coming to a new city? For optimal results, how does "pipelining game" differ from the usual online local dating game?

- what's your experience with the swinger lifestyle in these travels?

- how do you combine sugar daddy game, or other paid for sex routes and cheap to completely free game?

This is a revised version of a post I made in the old forum.
 
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lenox

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Sounds good @Lazy Blitz.

When you're ready, create individual threads for each of these subtopics. I know many members will be happy to share their insights if you focus the topics that way.
 

Caleb Jones

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I have a whole battle plan laid out for when I move out of the US in 2021. I'll only be going to 2-3 regular locations so it's not as complicated as a guy who is a digital nomad or perpetual traveler, but it's something you definateyl need to plan in advance.
 

Raikahoken

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I am also just starting to do this. I've freed myself with a location independent business around 2 years ago and I've always wanted to move elsewhere. I live in Asia and I hate how hot, expensive and sexually conservative the place is. Now I am in the scouting phase, doing trips where I hit many cities briefly to see where I want to spend time in long term. I did a West/Central Europe trip last year, starting a North/South America trip next week and probably doing a Eastern Europe / Central Asia trip next year. After that I will choose a few locations to rotate between in the year. As for dating, I think I'll have to figure it out when I actually stay at the place itself. But I look forward to reading BD's posts on this in the near future.
 

Lazy Blitz

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Sounds good @Lazy Blitz.

When you're ready, create individual threads for each of these subtopics. I know many members will be happy to share their insights if you focus the topics that way.
Can I create several subthreads, or it's several separate threads at the same level? I am still learning how to use the new forum.
 

Lazy Blitz

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I live in Asia and I hate how hot, expensive and sexually conservative the place is.
It sounds like Singapore to me. I do like tropical weather and how modern and clean this city is though. Also prostitution is completely legal, which is a very smart policy.
 

lenox

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Can I create several subthreads, or it's several separate threads at the same level? I am still learning how to use the new forum.
Only me and Caleb can create subthreads.

Since you have many ideas and questions, choose one, create a new thread where you can focus on that one topic.

Make as many as you like, but you will definitely get more feedback by focusing the topic so it's not so much a free-for-all.
 

Lazy Blitz

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Thank you for welcoming me in the forum :)

I have been living a nomadic lifestyle since 2011, first in Europe where I am born and raised, then South East Asia and North America. My short term goal is to split my time between South East Asia (done) and tropical sub Saharan black Africa (never been) or Madagascar (never been). I look for above one million inhabitants coastal cities with easy and quick (ideally less than 1h public transport) access to nice snorkeling spot in these areas, or surfing. Not HIV ridden (below 5% of population infected), not Islam dominated culture (below 30%), not war zone.

My main interests are:
Women: South east Asian looking women, black African looking women with big round butts, Latina looking women with round butts, women with short seated height (I am ok with long legs, but I like a woman to be significantly smaller than me when we sit, because small body torso/trunk feels much better to me during sex, and my seated height is rather short myself), main sex kink: women who like receiving anal sex. I don't like ONS but I like to have a rotation of 5 to 10 more or less regular women where I live, I meet and have safer sex with 3 to 5 different women per week. Each woman I see a maximum of once per week. I don't care if they fuck other men and I don't want children. I like swinging, 3somes with 2 bisexual women and other kinds of sex orgies. The vast majority of my sex comes from free online game, I am super cheap with women and generally very minimalist. Except in Pattaya where it's all about p4p for me.
Snorkeling and diving in clear water in tropical to warm Mediterranean weather. Body-boarding and surfing. Water-skiing, alpine mountain skiing.
I am also big INTP borderline Asperger nerd who likes theoretical physics (quantum gravity), metaphysics (consciousness, Penrose Hameroff Orch-OR model, Buddhism), Virtual Reality, 3D movies, Science-Fiction.

Things I don't enjoy:
Stupid laws such as forbidding prostitution or forbidding to sell food after midnight to walk in customers at a McDonald drive in when only the drive in is open.
Staying in Muslim dominated cultures (because I cannot see the body of women. I rarely drink alcohol so not a problem for me)
Fresh and Cold weather
Staying far from the sea or ocean
Not clear water (most of Thailand)
Filipino food
Filipino internet speed
Arabic, Persian, Indian, red hair or other very pale skinned Caucasian or Asian women (most of Chinese, Vietnamese, Korean, Japanese).
Feminonazism
Sex with drunk women (I don't like how they move)
Monogamy and sexual exclusivity
Reproduction, kids and babies
Sharing a bedroom with someone, especially if female
Littering (I love Singapore law against littering and I won't step foot in India, also because I find Indian women unattractive)

Places I regularly stay:
Philippines: Davao City (main base, my sweet spot for short south east Asian women and snorkeling), Manila.
Thailand: Bangkok, Pattaya.
Singapore.
Malaysia: Tioman Island (only for snorkeling or diving)


Other places I have been:
Lived in (1 month or more):
South East Asia:
Thailand: Chiang Mai, Bangsaen
Cambodia: Sihanoukville
North America:
Canada: British Columbia: Vancouver
USA: California: Los Angeles
Philippines: Cebu City, Dauin (near Dumaguette)
Europe:
UK: Kingston Upon Hull and Canterbury
Ireland: Dublin
France: Bordeaux, Nantes, Paris, Toulouse, Antibes, Marseille
Poland: Poznan and Krakow
Spain: Barcelona

Visited:
South East Asia:
Thailand: Patong (Phuket), Koh Yao Yai, AoNang, Krabi, Koh Phi Phi, Koh Samui, Koh Phan-Ngan, Koh Larn, Koh Samet, Udon Thani, Ubon Ratchatani, Sattahip, Siracha
China: Yunnan province: Kunming and Lijiang
Cambodia: Phnom Penh (was a garbage smelling shithole in March 2014)
Philippines: Mindoro: Puerto Galera and Calapan. Luzon: Batangas: Mabini. Cebu, Lapu-Lapu, Bantayan, Malapascua, Bohol, Balicasag, Siquijor, Negros Occidental: Sipalay Beach and Bacolod, Guimaras, Iloilo, Boracay, Surigao, Siargao, Sohoton Cove (most beautiful place I have ever seen for my tastes, I haven't yet visited Palawan, El Nido, Coron though), Enchanted River, Butuan (shithole), Camiguin, Cagayan de Oro, Samal, Talikud, Mati, Pujada
Malaysia: Penang, Kuala Lumpur
Vietnam: Saigon, DaNang

North America:
USA: New York, Niagara falls, San Francisco, Yosemite, Death Valley, Bryce Canyon (beautiful), Zion (beautiful), Lake Powell, Grand Canyon (disappointed), Phoenix (felt like a personal hellhole to me), Meteor Crater, San Diego (felt like a cool place), Santa Monica, Portland
Canada: British Columbia: Sunshine Coast

Caribbean: Martinique (best diving I have ever had at Diamond Rock - Rocher du Diamant) and Guadeloupe

Indian Ocean: Mauricius and Réunion

Europe:
It's easier to state where I haven't been: Iceland, Norway, Finland, Russia, Austria, Bulgaria, Moldova, ex Yugoslavia countries except I have been in Ljubljana in Slovenia. Turkey isn't Europe but to be clear I haven't been there, only changed flight once at Istanbul. Been at least in once city in all others European countries.

North Africa: (I disliked the Muslim culture and found Maghreb/Arabic women particularly ugly for me)
Morocco: Marrakesh and Essaouira
Tunisia: Tunis
Egypt: Cairo and Nile

Middle East:
Dubai: didn't see much besides the jail for 3 days (definitely not a fan of Muslim cultures)

That's all folks! Don't hesitate to hit me up if you have any question.
 
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