Why I dumped all my female platonic friends

[DarkWoods]

For most of my life, I was considered a nice guy. A few times, women told me they don't understand why I am single because I'm so nice and I have a good hear to listen to all of their problems.

The problem is that by keeping female platonic friends in my life, I have less time to spend with potential girlfriends or fuckfriends. And also, very often, women would asked me for a service or to listen to them while they were talking about their boyfriend or ex-boyfriend ...

So a few months ago, I began to get rid a female platonic friends one by one when I feel that they don't bring value to my life.

And you, do you have female platonic friends? How many? Do you plan on getting rid of them eventually?

I approve what Steve Harvey says in this video.

Steve Harvey says men and women can't be friends.

 

[lenox]

Girls are so silly. Always promoting behaviours they don't actually find attractive.

Keep spreading this gospel

 

[Stork]

Steve Harvey was spot on there, but you can still play the fact that these so called "friends" are interested in you in your favor. There's this manosphere guy called Jon Anthony that said that sometimes you should friendzone hot girls. His rationale was that very often the social connections (and thus more girls to have sex with) you get by doing this will result in more and easier sex in the long run than if you just had sex with that one specific hot girl.

Whether that is true is up to debate. I can't fathom spending much time with a girl I find hot, repressing myself and not feeling like an orbiter.

 

[lenox]

He's right that Jon Anthony

Although the skill it takes to get the hot girl and make her prospect for you still is just as valuable.

Caleb teaches that proficiency. As do others.

Women are apprciating assets if you inspire and motivate them properly. Master that skill and you'll never want for anything.

 

[Magok]

For me was the opposite, I was tired of having only male friends, so I started to hang out with mostly female friends haha.


I'm an extrovert though, I just fucking love to be around people.

 

[joelsuf]

do you have female platonic friends?

I only have a few, but I treat them pretty much exactly like my male buddies.

It's not some weird sin to have chick buddies, as long as you don't catch feelings and have decent boundaries. But yeah if they're asking you to do favors for them all the time and stuff then that is unacceptable. But it would be unacceptable for any of my dude buddies to be asking those same kinds of favors of me.

 

[joelsuf]

Girls are so silly. Always promoting behaviours they don't actually find attractive.

That's cuz chicks are slaves to their ideals and told by tradcons to not promote behavior that they find attractive.

We can't forget that chivalry was developed by men who wanted their chivalry to be seen as attractive and nothing else. And those types pretty much ruled the world for a couple of centuries. Not easy to undo that.